Today, the right to live one’s desire stands fragile and threatened. To love across caste, religion, region, language, community and gender is often just as dangerous for those desiring people of the opposite sex. From khap panchayats and the ridiculously named ‘honour killings’ to the everyday violence of how we separate from each other on caste, religious and class lines, the policing and criminalising of desire is one of the most powerful yet unseen ways in which inequality and injustice are maintained in our society. Unlike other, more familiar forms of exclusion, however, discrimination on the basis of sexuality is often trivialised, reduced to something ‘private’, dismissed as something ‘elite’, or confined to the lower rungs in hierarchies of grief in the real battles of poverty, work, violence and hunger.


