It is the apathy of the state and the lack of a standalone law, even after decades of honour killings, that deserves greater focus today. While we remind ourselves of instances where representatives of the state have condoned crimes against women and men in the name of honour, sided with traditional councils for petty political benefit and got away with it, we must also raise our voice in support of better institutional frameworks that enable protection of victims and conviction of the guilty. We owe it to the countless victims, to ourselves and to our Constitution to create an overarching law, but more importantly, a social support structure that would protect India’s young women and men, and give them a chance for self-realisation. We need to urge Parliament to pass the Prevention of Crimes in the Name of Honour and Tradition Bill, 2010, and implement its premise of according “all persons, including young persons and women, with the right to control their own lives, a right to liberty and freedom of expression, and a right of association, movement and bodily integrity”.